Hi Dave. I run the Libreoffice-na.us site. It is not an "official" download path, but a site for a DVD project with it accessible online as well as on a physical media.
I found that the problems I had with downloading from LO's site due to a problem with the mirror system of downloading.
When you download a file from there, you are actually downloading it from one of the many mirrors available. I would be one, buy my hosting company will not allow that to happen.
Sometimes there are problems with the chosen mirror.
If you go to the "info" part of the green "button" to download the file, and click there, you will be given a list of mirrors to choose from instead of the downloading system to make that choice for you.
So you may be either having an issue with the "default" mirror,
OR
your dial-up company could be "limiting" the size of file being downloaded. I know that some do from experience.
So, here are your option, as I see it.
1) try one of the mirrors and start the download before you go to bed. If it goes, you should have it by morning.
2) have your son download the install files [install and help] and have him send it to you on a CD.
3) have you son download my DVD and send it to you.
[version 5 of the 3.5.4 DVD .iso file will be available in a few days - version 1 is online but not as good]
4) I might be able to send you a copy of my DVD via post, but I do not know how much the post office charges anymore.
If you want to "talk to me " off the list, you can do so by either my
webmaster@krackedpress.com [default for the lists]
or
webmaster@libreoffice-na.us [default for the DVD project]
I help dial-up people locally from time to time. I am in central New York State along the Pennsylvania border. I still have a laptop or two that has a dial-up modem, but most modern ones do not, it seems. I do not have them set up for dial-up anymore, but I have a friend that uses a free dial-up service that limits to 10 hours of work per month. I understand that their paid service also has a limiting factor on how large of a file you can download. It is not stated anywhere I have seen, but he has seen it happen with others with that service. If he needs to download large, either I do it or he comes to my place to access my home/office network's Internet access. I also share that access via a private wireless system with several people in my apartment building. This secured network is part of my own network with a separate router for their use and will not access my part of the network due to the IP addresses from one network are different from the other and you cannot access one part from the other.
So, hopefully it would be the mirror that is chosen for you. Otherwise you will need to have someone send you the install files on a CD or a DVD if you want more than just the basic installs.
Check out this link to see what my DVD has beyond the basic installs. You can find these files other places, but I gathered them into one place. Also I have the largest American English spell checking dictionary for LO, or as far as I know and have been told. There are in the dictionary section of the DVD's web site with "kpp" in the titles.
http://libreoffice-na.us/English-3.5-installs/index.html