Please don't top-post in a bottom/inline posted thread...
are you perchance clicking on 'save' rather than 'save as'?
I don't know why the 'save' is there;-)
Obviously it is so that you can easily save changes to a file that has
already been saved/named, without having to save it to an ever different
name...
> if that was the reason for 'save' then it would save in the same
> folder, rather than some temp [?] folder with some strange name
> where it's not findable 
Perhaps you are confused...
It *does* save it in the same folder, because it simply saves the changes to the *same document*.
It only saves a document to the TEMP folder if you open it from an email, and then possibly only for certain mail clients (Thunderbird being one).
> I think this same un-findable folder is used for saving when the
> program auto-saves;
Again, you are badly mistaken.
If you create a document, and save it to a specific folder, then later open that document for editing, both saves and auto-saves simply save the changes to the document where it resides.
So... either you are badly mistaken, or your computer system is badly broken.